Motherhood & identity
Linked with love
“Guilt will always linger while we are in a love this deep—it is linked with love…” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
July 12, 2022
“Guilt will always linger while we are in a love this deep—it is linked with love…” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“To be a mother is to carry the weight of the world. Your world.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“Mama, I’ve been there. I’ve wondered where the old me has gone, and who the new me is becoming.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
‘A mother is always ten steps ahead. Her mind is planning, hoping, thinking.’ A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“We don’t know how you do it, but you do. You make everything happen. It’s like magic. YOU are magic.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“So here’s a reminder to myself, and anyone else that needs to hear it: Take the photos.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“So much of my mothering is in my mindset…” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“Over and over. Day after day. Night after night. I do it for them.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“They are needing more from me, and I can’t always find it.This is pregnancy with younger children.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“Six weeks they said, to become the Mother. They never told you that becoming Her would be your life’s work.” A motherhood poem by Jade Loney.
“So to meet those needs, I need to make time. But time isn’t always easy to find.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“Nine months is a long time… But I am creating you. That’s not something that can be rushed.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“Being pregnant. It’s a beautiful privilege. But it’s not always easy.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of Dear Motherhood.
“Often when I tell another mother about a hard moment, a hard day, a hard week, I hear “same here”.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
Claire shares her story of becoming a single mother by choice, and how this has impacted her motherhood experience. Read her story and her advice for other single mums.
“If it weren’t for you, there may not be the start. The middle would be harder. And much would end.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“Mama, I know the world is heavy right now. It has been for some time.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“For them it’s the hugs and kisses at night, not the new outfit.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“These changes have been the making of me. A new me. The mother born into me.” A poem by Emma Heaphy, author of Dear Motherhood.
“What matters will never really be complete either, because I will never be finished loving them.” A poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“This is for the mother still awake at night. Heavy eyes, full heart.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“I hope this makes it easier. That’s why I’m telling you. We are in this together.” A poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
No one can learn to parent overnight, but you can support your partner to be a great dad over time. Learn a few simple ways to boost his parenting confidence.
“We need to love ourselves through our mothering with much less guilt and shame, including our own inevitable imperfect moments.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“So as mothers we may do things different, but we all have on thing in common: we all love our children endlessly…” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“People will try to tell you about the first moment. The one where you fall in love with your baby…” A motherhood poem by Jess Urlichs, author of ‘From One Mom to a Mother’.
“It’s play for them. It’s growth for me. It’s learning for us both.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
New mom Caitlin Scott reflects on her childhood memories of Christmas, and the pressure to recreate those experiences for her own daughter.
“Dear Motherhood, answer me this. Sincerely, a mother on behalf of a collective of mothers.” A poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’
Your baby’s first Christmas can be both exciting and daunting, with so many expectations to manage (including your own). Read about how to navigate Christmas as a new mom.
“There has been a lot going on this year. We have parented through some incredibly difficult times.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“I think back to the days that felt like remakes, but now I see they were all originals, especially to them.” A motherhood poem by Jess Urlichs, author of “From one mom to a mother”
“In her hour of need, I was busy struggling with the newborn stage, and she felt abandoned by me.” Caitlin shares how her friendships changed when she became a mom.
Got a toddler that’s busier than busy? You need a busy board, mama! Read on to find out what the heck a busy board is and for our guide to nine that we love.
“You are doing so much. You are more than enough. You are the sum of all.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of “Dear Motherhood”.
Should you have a second child? And when? Shaney Hudson explores the complexities of deciding to have a second child in this motherhood opinion piece. Read more.
“…that’s where the love is. Not in the perfect or consistent. But in the trying.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of “Dear Motherhood”.
Shaney Hudson discusses the impacts of sleep deprivation and the pressure new moms face to suffer in silence instead of seeking help.
“I didn’t want anyone to see me, and yet, when passers-by looked into the pram I want them to see ME.” A motherhood poem by Jess Urlichs, author of ‘From One Mom to a Mother’.
“Be kind to her. Always. Because kindness costs nothing. But it can change everything.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
You know having a safe sleep environment for your baby is important AF. But how the heck do you set one up? We’ve got your back, mama. Here’s a handy guide.
“You are the perfect piece in their puzzle. And so often as mothers we can forget this.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
Caitlin Scott shares her thoughts on the age old question often asked of new moms, “so when are you having another baby?”. Read more about this motherhood opinion.
“Know that support is needed at every stage. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
There’s a lot of pressure to offer educational at-home activities to promote kids’ development. It can be overwhelming. Do parents need to be educators too?
New mom Caitlin Scott shares her experience of sending her baby to daycare for the first time. Read more about this motherhood milestone.
“Take yourself into the future. Twenty or so years from now.” A motherhood poem by Emma Heaphy, author of ‘Dear Motherhood’.
“I want it to be the warmth that spreads through them, no matter what.” A motherhood poem by Jess Urlichs, author of ‘From One Mom to a Mother’.
Looking for at home date night ideas? Whether you’re tired AF (because, parenting), CBF cooking, or the exact opposite! There’s something here for everyone.
There’s a study that suggests we turn into our moms at the age of 33, say what?! Here are 5 ways you’re becoming your mom and why that’s OK. Read more.
Helping your baby sleep isn’t just about a comfy crib and cute baby sleep sack. Lighting, sound and temperature will all impact baby sleep. Read more.
A beautiful short piece honoring dads on Father’s Day. Written by Jess Urlichs, author of ‘From one mom to a mother’.
Wondering when to start potty training your toddler or baby? It’s not just about age but when they show signs of readiness. Learn how to get this sh*t done.
We can’t come & hold your baby while you sleep/eat/enjoy glorious silence, because *boundaries*, but there are a few ways Mumli can make parenting easier.
Here are 3 tips to help minimize the parenting fails & an exit strategy to keep in your back pocket in case of emergency – you’ve got this!
